Profanity, Vulgar language, Swearing
What should I do?
Some people make a big deal of nothing. Have you ever run across this kind of situation: “Good morning Art. Thank you for sending this update regarding our meeting.
If I could please humbly and respectfully make a request, it will be to ask that during the group's interactions, that we all remain polite, professional and respectful towards one another. May we please agree to not use offensive profanity or vulgar language? Please know that I am definitely not trying to dictate how anyone's conversation should be. Only to bring us to a higher level in the way we think as well as how we do business.
Even though I profess to be a Christian and my husband is a Minister, we will not be attending these meetings for the purpose of trying to convert anyone. We understand how to draw the line. Its just that I personally am uncomfortable around too much conversation like that and don't understand why it is necessary for intelligent people to talk this way in order to get their point across.
As with any business or organizations, there are rules of conduct, as well as policies and procedures. I have worked for about 15 years in the corporate world in middle to upper management, so am very familiar with how this aspect of business operates. In addition, my husband is five months shy of completing his Master's degree in Business Management, so I believe he would be a much needed asset to our group. Most black business' fail, because they don't understand business management.
Well, you said to be honest with one another, so I have communicated my thoughts to you. Please let me know what you think. Be blessed"
Please do not use your gender to have someone roll out the red carpet for you. Respect, earn it by setting the example! If you want the door opened for you, open it for someone else.
I am uncomfortable when my car breaks down, roof leaks, computer problems, bills, debt, death in the family and the list goes on and on. Dailly, I am faced with this kind of situation, as I am talking with, what I think are good intentions, well educated, the cream of the crop people and what do you get? 95% of the time, they will let you down every time, especially Preachers. Well, are not they there to save sinners? Is it getting better or are we getting worse? How can you help save somebody when you do not want to be around them? Sad to say, but most of them are full of shit, again, especially the ones who had to go to school to learn how to be a Preacher. According to Preacher wives, most Preacher wives’ complain like hell about how unfaithful their husbands are, except for the easy money, which they just take until they can’t take any more. We have more Preachers and churches than ever before, but our communities, schools and churches are worse than ever. I challenge you to do better. That is why I was as direct to her as I could be. What do you do when you run across someone from the hood? Do you kick them to the curve because they said a word, in your mind, is a curse word? People know what they are doing,,,do you? What kind of people are you looking to help?
Obviously, this lady does not know me nor does she want to get to know me. I am one of the nicest people you will ever meet, as long as things are straight. Apology, not in order. This is real life and just like they do in mass media, just bleep it out of your mind, body and soul. Just like they do when it comes to paying me, pay it no attention. The joy I get out of writing is the courage to be free enough to write exactly what I feel.
Most businesses fail for the same reason most marriages fail, bad relationships, for the wrong reasons. We find it hard to deal with people differences. We feel they must be just like what we have learned to be "decent people".
You never know when God is going to bless you!! Good things happen when and where you least expect them!!!!!!!!
I thank God for this day, I thank Him for being able to see and to hear.
I'm blessed because He is a forgiving and understanding God, who have done so much for me and He keeps on blessing me.
Forgive me this day for everything I have done, said or thought that was not pleasing to You. I ask now for Your forgiveness.
Please keep me safe from all danger and harm. Help me to start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude. Let me make the best of each and every day to clear my mind so that I can hear from You.
Please broaden my mind that I may accept all things. Let me not whine and whimper over things I have no control over. And give me the best response when I'm pushed beyond my limits.
I know when I can't pray, You listen to my heart. Continue to use me to do Your will.
Continue to bless me that I may be a blessing to others. Keep me strong that I may help the weak... Keep me uplifted that I may have words of encouragement for others.
I pray for those that are lost and can't find their way. I pray for those that are misjudged and misunderstood. I pray for those who don't know You intimately.
God changes people and God changes things. I pray for all my sisters and brothers. For each and every family member in their households. I pray for peace, love and joy in their homes; that they are out of debt and all their needs are met.
I pray that every eye reading this knows there is no problem, circumstance, or situation greater than God. Every battle is in His hands for Him to fight.
I pray these words be received into the hearts of every eye that sees them in Jesus' name. Let it be so!
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