Understanding The Difference

I beg to understand the difference

Though we are the same, we are also different. Is not that wonderful? Yes, it is until we are put to the test and then, amnesia takes gives in to angry, aggression and frustration. Yes, it is until we run out of patience.

Further, we can easily justify it. A good test for me is little kids, someone else’s nice little kids. Boy, they can really get to you if you are not careful. Between siblings, you can give them two cups with the same drink and the same amount, then switch the two and create the biggest argument. Lack of understanding?

Well, the same applies to adults. As adults, we are so different we expect to have our way. Any thing to interrupt whatever we see as acceptable, if not careful, can aggravate the heck out of us. That the kind of selfishness we get just from thinking something belongs to us and we will respond in a violent manner.

The idea is to get understanding. We must live and work together! My goal is to be good, happy and helping. That takes plenty of patience and love. There are my expectations and my innate defensive mechanisms. It takes some processing and training for all them mesh for the situation at hand to result in a positive outcome. Other wise, we are like lions on a kill.

I have a friend and she seems to be so good at that. There is never a task too demanding. She has the greatest “can do attitude” and is always willing to help and that attitude seems permeates in all her tasks and everyone with whom she comes into contact. It is a pleasure to be around those kind of people.

The opposite of that is me. Nothing ever seems to work, I do not have the time nor patience…I am often unreasonable and unforgiving…it is hard for me to get along with people, I have the worse luck and I am ready to strike out at any time I feel threatened…there are always underlying agendas and people wanting to take the advantage. With myself, I am often frustrated. Stess factor off the grid?

That is why this subject is so important to me: Understanding and Patience. Alone I can do nothing. If I am to live a long healthy life, be happy, achieve my dreams and goals, live in peace and harmony, I must learn and practice patience and understanding with myself and others. I love me and I want to live in peace and harmony with others, so I beg to understand the difference.

I want the best for my life. Expand your understanding outside your box and share. Go here and Educate yourself to do the same!

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