What's the difference between a gigolo and typical norms? I propose this question to all these so called “God Fearing Women” we have?
A gigolo is a male escort or social companion who is supported by a woman in a continuing relationship, often living in her residence or having to be present at her beck and call. The gigolo is expected to provide companionship, to serve as a consistent escort with good manners and social skills, and often, to serve as a dancing partner as required by the woman in exchange for the support (which is contrary to typical norms). Many gifts such as expensive clothing and an automobile to drive may be lavished upon him. The relationship may include sexual services as well, when he also would be referred to as "a kept man".
The term gigolo usually implies a man who adopts a lifestyle consisting of a number of such relationships serially, rather than having other means of support.
The word gigolo may be traced to a first use as a neologism during the 1920s as a back formation from a French word, gigolette, a woman hired as a dancing partner.
Now, that we agree on what a gigolo is, what is the difference in this relationship than any other relationship considered typical? Why are we prejudice against anyone professing to be a gigolo? Why look down on gigolos? Are the relationships we’re in working well, Why not?
A partner, a best friend, a spouse must be a good companion in order to build any kind of good relationship. In any relationship “support” is required and is a mutual commitment. Plus, women are very good at nurturing. There’s no way for support to be long term when it is not reciprocated.
Companionship, escort, gifts and social skills are also duties which must be reciprocated in any relationship.
A number of such relationships, again what’s the difference, relationships are built to grow and include others and these others are there for a purpose and that is to compliment each other.
Rather than having other means of support::: Who cares how many or how few jobs you have as long as you’re taking care of business? Each individual should act for the benefit of the group, and the group should act for the benefit of each individual, which is the foundation for any family, no matter the family members. That’s why I give credence to groups like the Amish, Mormens, Africans… Is it that we’re just looking for another reason to look down on our fellow man?
What we do for one human being, we must do for all, all for one and one for all. Now, sex… again, sex is just another reason to look down on your fellow man.
Other presumptuous accusations are gigolos sleep with anything with two legs or Oh heavens no, honey. You’ll have to pay for this dude. And, basically, he’s a rental… We want to denounce gigolos but promote “male chauvinistic pigs”. Why do happily married couples have affairs?
We all are gigolos, so let’s be the best gigolos we can.
What is a love that's more than love...“live and let live”.
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