A strange thing and it is often said nice women don't like quiet guys. When women are silent is it the same as when men are silent? Using silence as a method of being vindictive, what should I do to avoid argument?
I asked one lady and she said, they're thinking, processing, trying to figure out? But my thing is, why not thinking all the time? Is it because of this: As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says.
Or are they just giving you "the silent treatment"? Is it silence speaks louder than words and she shutting you out? If this is true then why aren't more people silent in arguments? Is it I can't say nothing nice, so to keep things cool I ain't saying nothing? Is this behavior her best defense mechanism and she's withdrawing. Is this a disrespecter of person? think about the implications of not being able to communicate when angry? Do you really want to be in relationship with a person like this?
What is it about you that causes women to shut down this way? It's a form of resistance, discipline, rebuke, and punishment all rolled up in one powerful method to make you think back on every little thing you did or said.
For those that say being quiet is being wise in this kind of situation, if you were quiet we wouldn't have this situation.
Is it the "demand-withdraw" syndrome, being met with avoidance and silence? Fruitless, because you're no longer addressing the issue but pursuing power and the more it is not addressed the more it will be used. Put the shoe on the other foot, if you cannot figure out a way to peacefully and openly negotiate then one partner will dominate the other. Unnecessary stress is created from one partner not opening up to the other.
Each partner should act like their going to die tomorrow, now how important is this point?
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