Black American Women Getting Alone and Desperate Women

by Concern about the outcome

Do you still "stand by" your article posted on March 10 at 6:51pm; I think you should, because it does address what was written in at least two of the articles I read. I was one that took your advice. Am re-posting for others to associate...

Renenet Ra-Neter • Top Commenter • Douglasville, Georgia

The amount of truth in this (Art’s) article today really strikes a nerve, pisses me the “F”off, because I know; as a woman we control everything, like it or not. It’s the truth. How? By the way we raise our children both genders and our choices in life. When we are being true to ourselves and men feel we are being controlling, is it because we love demandingly after years of mental enslavement? Why must I be labeled? I don’t accept the thought of women intentionally trying to destroy their family and community. It takes 2 to Tango. I will accept the fact that each of us has a different way of doing or saying the same thing and this can be misunderstood if there’s no honest communicate between a man and a woman. It is why we should not allow our past experiences to hinder our growth. We must make sure we release or purify the energy which surrounded us in the past before moving forward, resolving before creating again if we want to ensure we do not have to travel the same path again. To understand this, is how we stop these vicious cycles. I repeat, it takes 2 to Tango… And I know I need to revisit my feelings on this subject since I’m the one who’s upset.

I am upset because women are always blamed for situations as much as men feel they have been blamed, another cycle of hurt feelings and pain which I see, feel and hear spirituality in Ether and wonder when it will end while knowing all the time that it will not until we fully understand with overstanding vibrations that we are one and in our oneness we help or hinder ourselves and not one another as though we are separate. It is in knowing the energy created from the thoughts of blame affect everyone. We have been misguided for generations. We are not taught to value what is real only what can be sold to us. Always been big demand of buying and selling to us, not to mention us. Many are educated and educators; I see no progressive movement in these times for Nubian families. Is it because we are too busy fighting each other for control? Do women feel they need to be in control when in a relationship with a man they can complement or only when they are in a relationship which makes them feel unsure and unsecure of self? Get out the hell out of Dodge is all I can say if you find yourself here, it’s not worth the effect of losing your self-esteem or having another label added the list for females by men. We must remove everything that separated us in the past even if/when it means leaving what we were taught to value: family, friends, believes, myths, or relationships behind if we really desires change. Change will happen only when self-evaluation is done with honesty, truthfulness and respect for ourselves in acknowledgement of our oneness. Hurt and pain are not limited to gender.

I associated what Renenet wrote with what was written in the above two articles: "Black American Women Getting Alone and Desperate Women". CONCERNED!!!!

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Oct 24, 2012
Black women...
by: Art

Heah, I appreciate everybody but I'll share this truth with you. Black women, for that matter, Black People don't control shit in America, not even themselves. My momma is a black woman and I can tell you what I know.

Are we on the bottom or the top, why? It's my intent to raise awareness to that and maybe we'll start being ourselves so we maybe recognized and respected among the human race across the world.

The things Black Women should control...just look at them...our homes, communities, children, gardens... Do you call this "SisterHOOD? Would you like to move into one? Just try working with multiple Black American Women and it will not take you long...i don't care what area you visit, the only thing our black women are doing is supporting the system designed to fail us and in order to do that, they have neglected their divine responsibilities, unless you want to call going to church...

Those things we do control, we quickly fuck them up, why.

Does oneness mean "just you" or the group of us? What's the relationship between Black men and Black women,,, is it like BET, The Cosby's, Td Jakes... How business minded are they?

All I'm saying is "If we do not recognize the problem how in the hell can we correct it? My wife is a black woman and I know. My children are also black and I know. My lovers are also black and I know. It's more trouble than good trying to keep up with the Jones'. Why don't they turn their backs on the system like they turn their back on black men. Now, somebody is going to say black men turn their backs on themselves but think about that when you lay down with them everyday.

Why are our homes and communities not good enough? Why are we so easily misled by our enemies? We have every excuse, but the bottomline is we do not own a damn thing. Look at the east indians, mexicans...they don't attend our schools, speak english...but they can generate their own income,,,why?

All they do is turn the kids against black men in an attempt to appease to the other man. Do you visit black communities, do you really see what's going on? Do you really see our distinguished black ladies, have you tried to have a conversation with them... Your truths, what about "our truths"?

Somebody wrote something about an "ego" and that ego is killing us. I believe black people are a cut above if we just used it. and it's my thing to inspire us to listen to ourselves and not to others....Show me that your love is for real,,, mine is...that's why I write like I do... Love you too...and thank you so much...Art

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