by DEE

……..How far will you go to keep (get) a man?
Are you so desperate for a man that you will do anything to get him and keep him in your control? What does that say about you? Some of my sisters have demonstrated the need for a man in their lives is so strong, they have resorted to using all kinds of trickery to capture a man and then destroy him.

They destroy the man when they realize that even with the tricks he still does not want them. What a pity?!!

Is it a result of low self-esteem when my sisters feel it necessary to lie, make empty promises, use trickery, and evil deeds to reel him into their tangled webs?

Do they feel unlovable and the only way to be loved is to trick someone? It is sad when other sisters see you for what you are and know that you are dangerous. You are dangerous to yourself because your deeds and behavior reveal your real “truth”……..”good” or “evil”?

Over the years I have discovered one of the most precious gifts God has given us is the ability to connect and love. A man and a woman loving each other in realness, truthfulness, honesty, and passion for life comes naturally from GOD. This type of love cannot be forced, copied, manufactured, conjured, or made.

Any other “love” is a figment of your imagination and will never endure. It only causes you to destroy and kill!

So, my sisters stop forcing love. If it is not there, it’s just not there!! Stop the tricks, games, lies, voodoo, witchcraft, etc. , REAL LOVE comes naturally, instantly, profoundly, passionately, simultaneously and it last forever!

Both parties willingly and whole-heartedly want to be with each other. They have no secrets, they are completely open and honest with each other and they accept each other with no strings attached. They both want to be with each other willingly.

FORCED LOVE only tricks you and guess who loses in the end? Trick or Treat? Respect Yourself!!
Love and Peace,


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Oct 30, 2012
by: Anonymous

Is that a bear claw or what? It reminds me of something in wedding vows...I give to you my hand, but it leaves open, where is your heart. I want your heart as well as your hand - heart and hands.

Oct 23, 2012
Trick or Treat - Who's fooling who?
by: Renenet Sekhmet

You are so right when you write Trick or Treat. I could not agree more with you about forcing anyone to love you.

Love always needs to be a natural flow of energy between people. Love is expressed naturally when it is real so why hide your relationship? Who’s fooling who?

There is no need to consider sharing our truth destructive when ensuring a cycle does not continue. Honest open communication maintains healthy communities and families.

How can we work together to ensure Human rights for all when we do not walk totally with our truth? Why be a part of anything that does not flow naturally with truth. I need to live my truth hiding nothing.

There no place to add comments to Black Women Getting along so I’ll post mine here.
My comment to Black Women Getting along:

Calm down; don’t allow her to raise the Dark Knight. She does not represent the action(s) of all black women. I do not agree with your friend’s warning; she wasn’t trying to bring you down, just keeping it real. I bet she’s proven she wants the best for you.

I’m wondering why “sleep with a man has to mean have sex” to men. Was there a change in plans, why? I understand how you feel about your home, the energy is strong. Do you think she was unable to leave when she tried?

I saw this article right after I finished my last submission. I started thinking about running relationships and businesses the same way.

I think we need to build all new business by sharing our real truth in all aspects of the business. Why do businesses need to hide facts when starting a new branch? I thought about this and how I’d feel in that situation.

I know I need to know the truth in all aspects of a business. Why would women try to destroy anything of truth? We wouldn’t. It is why we share with others for awareness. When there is a spiritual and intimate connection with the belief of there is comfort in knowing, why do we need to hide the truth of intimacy in relationships? There is no need to hurt anyone.

Not knowing has proven to be hurtful whenever truth rears (roars) its ass in the past. Why contribute to violence and abuse? Do you like the game I heard? Why play games, we always need to keep it real to ensure no hurt feels or misunderstandings in the future.

Most Sisterhoods are truthful and keep it real at all cost. We do not destroy mans’ truth; men destroy their truth by words and/or action(s)...

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