Gm YIV from Lamar

by Lamar
(Middle Georgia)

Gm. Kinda woke up early this morning and had life on my mind. Wondering how I can be a better person today!

I am learning that we can not change people. The only one we can make any changes to is our self. In fact, we are in control of all of our physical movements and reactions. So the outcome of any situation we may have is the result of our own actions and With every action there are consequences. With consequences there are sacrifices, which is all a part of life learning process.

Sometimes we think we can cheat life. You can never cheat or short change life. Life is a game that will beat you down with no hesitations and regrets!

Why get mad when you have caused your own down falls? If we play fair and by the rules no one would be disappointed. I was reading What Jada P. had written in one of Quotes. "The only one you can be in life is yourself." If you refuse to be you, then your life will be in vain.

Never allow any one to compromise being your true self. God gave you a gift. This Gift is eternal life here on this earth. You will only have one time to be you and enjoy your gift.

If you decide not to utilize what god gave to you. Then you will be shorting your self. I will no longer allow others to tamper with my energy and well being. I am learning to take full control of who I am and what God is allowing me to be.

You are being who you are. So why should I compromise myself for your satisfaction. "silly." One thing I am coming to grips with is "loving myself" No matter what others may say or think. People talk whether its good or bad. Wrong or right! Someone somewhere will always have something we may perceive as negative energy. But this is just one of life's tricky games we must learn to deal with and except and treat it as a life concept.

Compromise is the gift to continue existence here on this earth. The time has come for us to come together and except and embrace all of our differences. I don't have to live with you but I can love you from a far.

Sometimes when we step out side of the box we can see life from all different perspectives. We can stand back and take a second look at life and our decision making skills. We are not perfect human beings. No one is and well ever be , at least not in this life time!

So stop being so hard on each other. We are who we are made to be. We may just need a little more guiding and interaction with each other so we can better understand each other and except people for who they are and what they can possible become in life with love and guidance from others in our circles.

There's an ole saying. "It's takes a village to raise a child and a family to make a village." With this practice we will go a whole lot further in life. We are not Saints but I do believe that we all can be "Saved". So the next you are out in the community challenge yourself to being the better you can be in life.

No matter what others may think or say as long as you are right by the Law and in the "eyes of God" all is well and you will have salvation and mercy! The Book of Revelations. God loves you and so do I !

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