Men Hurt Too.

by Renenet

Men Hurt Too.

Why do we focus on the woes of women more than we do men? We are conditioned to focus on feelings, actions, violence, abuse, love or hate of women, never men. Men have feelings and they can hurt and/or be hurting too.

Sometimes we focus on ourselves or our sister’s pain; we never “feel” how the other side is feeling. Some actions of our men may represent an attempt to erase painful memories. Since I’ve never walked in men’s shoes nor been processed through our great educational system, it is through my intuition, clairvoyance, that I’m sharing from my Oneness since all knowledge is known and free when in Oneness with Your Inner Voice. From here I’ll write….

We can recognize different types of pain when we step back, give space, leaving room for energy to flow freely. What makes a man feel he needs two intermittent intimate relationships; insecurity which gives him a need to try to satisfy many females; inability to communicate his needs in his relationship or is he just plain selfishness and desires just to test all “waters”?

Pain from realization of the DS his stupid “a..” has to/had to do by joining Armed Forces or Law enforcement. Where he had to/has to say good-bye to his “Common Sense (CS)” and or shutdown his inner voice. We know how many of us support men who’ve follow these paths but do we RECOGNIZE the pain he feels whenever he gives up his CS or loses touch with his inner voice to follow THE rules or enforce laws? Or when he comes to you after a productive day to be caressed by you and your energies of Love; that for him dissolves any turmoil; just a touch, caress and kind words whispered in his ear?

Do we recognize how painful it might be for our sons when they marry to make decisions on their own; wondering if he’s making/made the right decisions according to Mama’s Laws or breaking Mama’s Laws by following the rules and/ or enforcing laws? Between Mama’s law, GOD’S laws and the LAWS of the Lands, can we recognize in balanced relationships love is painful for men as women?

Will it continue to be our way to sweep a man’s pain under the rug, moving forward as though nothing painful could have happened in his childhood being raised by one of us? What did we allow our sons to witness in their youth? Do our sons have painful past memories causing violence in his life? I won’t mention our sons who’ve been sexually abused by men, women and CLERGY! Do we know the signs of abuse for our sons as well as we do our daughters?

Painful past memories direct how we react to situations today. Remember whatever we allow our children to experience, through family, friends, education, government, and worship, even language, affects our future.

Let’s overwhelm our sons with love and joyful memories so when they become men painful memories won’t contribute to their need for multiple women. Maybe it would help eliminate the need at to inform and warn women about “Man-sharing” and remind them of why they continue to choose the WRONG man. Join in on a discussion or topic. Let You-inner-voice be heard. Hotep!

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