What Is The Difference Between Love And Hate?...

by Margrett Dawson Wallace
(Pelham, Georgia USA)


What Is The Difference Between Love And Hate?...

The difference between love and hate…I’m not sure what the answer is, but I think it’s around twenty dollars…LMAO…

Just sharing my thoughts on the above…Before I get started let me just clarify my thinking on "love and hate". When used in this writing, I am talking about true, deep, heart-felt emotions. This doesn’t apply to, “I hate hot dogs” or “I love ice cream.” This is like “soul mate” love and “you just stepped on my feet on purpose” hate.

The subject of emotion is a touchy one. Well it’s an emotional one isn’t it? I’ve met a lot of people that seems to be without emotion and I’ve met a lot of people that seem to have acquired the extra emotion floating around because it is always pouring out. It never seems to be distributed properly, does it?

There are two different sides to emotion. You have emotion that is better described as passion, but it is emotion all the same. Then you have emotion that is a reflection of how you feel. Be it sad, happy, angry, scared, love or hate. What is the main difference between all these emotions, because in the big scheme of things they appear to be a lot alike?

Fear, (being scared) and excitement mirror each other exactly, as do love and hate. The difference between the two is the context in which they are felt and expressed. If you ask someone how they feel in love, the list of “feelings” they describe are similar in nature to hate.

Both love and hate are strong emotions and take a toll on the owner. In the beginning stages, the feeling is all consuming and it is hard to concentrate or think about anything other than the object of your emotion...of past experiences. As time passes the “high” steadies out to be a pulse if you will, that keeps a constant, repetitive level of devotion. This is where a lot of people lose interest or in the case of hatred, forgive or forget...I forgive, but be-damn if I am forgetting. It is only the true of heart that may pass or you get to be old and talk about how much you can’t stand the person you love with all your heart or why you can't forget...

I’ve always thought of hate as love that had no-where to go. In by which the metamorphous is transpired by not wanting to die, so it feeds itself in a new avenue. Kind of like the joke, “What is the difference between a bitch and slut? A slut sleeps with everybody and a bitch sleeps with everybody but you". Like a baby that can’t get what it wants, the emotion is immediate, and most of the time without conscious thought, turned into negative emotion.

Rejection is often the fuel from the flip of love and hate. Basically love and hate is the same thing, but we decide which mask it wears… Behind The Mask; True love; Love Is Not Taught…never to live this life again...

Merry Mary

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