Caution! Player on Board…Manipulator

by DEE

Sistas, BEWARE!
Who is worst a player or a cheater?

Have you ever met a real player? Correction: a perpetrating, old ass player? They are to be avoided at all cost!! These people rank with the belly crawlers…snakes. Never, never, never get too close to a so-called player because they are manipulators and have no conscious.

What makes them so treacherous? They are treacherous because they are skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing you by pretending to care, when in reality they are only concerned about themselves. They are quick to talk about everybody else’s faults in order to make themselves appear above reproach.

The most fascinating thing about a player is they think they have everybody fooled but you can recognize them a mile away. They always have a tear jerking story to tell you…BS…either about their financial hardship, childhood or a bad relationship! You fall for the BS hook, line and sinker! Now you are under the players spell and want to do whatever you can to ease the sad players burden. Stop the madness, it’s all a game!!

Well, if you recognize the symptoms and you are not a fighter, kick yourself in the ass, gather your feelings and run like hell!! There’s no need to explain why, just run because the player is going to find another victim and keep on playing because he’s heartless and doesn’t care who is hurt. The player thinks the world is full of weak people he can prey upon.

However, the player fails to understand the mind of a “sho nuf sista”, a fighter, she will let him play until he runs out! A “sho nuf sista” has scruples; she knows how to give the player enough rope to hang himself.

A player is worst than a cheater because in most instances the cheater may have been caught up in the moment. You have the opportunity to review the circumstances and possibly forgive the cheater. On the other hand, the player's every move is calculated and intentional. Who in their right mind can forgive someone who intentionally hurt you?

Oh what a day of jubilee when a “sho nuf sista” cuts the rope!!!

“Shoot first, ask questions later!! Take no prisoners!!”

Remember: Every dog has a day but a good dog has two! “For True!”
Love and Peace

Twenty Years Later

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Mar 26, 2013
Thank you!
by: DEE

This is very close to my heart. I hate to see anyone hurt or abused. We all must take responsibility for each other. See A False Sense of Entitlement!

Mar 26, 2013
Caution! Player on Board…Manipulator
by: Renenet Sekhmet

Thank you for sharing. Beautifully documented on YIV for yOur children and future generations.

It's what we call "DDSS" where I'm from. WEBsite, is it the spider and the fly, the spinner and the spider or spider and spider?

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